Bob felt called to spend some time in Virginia with his parents while also helping them out with some more physically demanding chores. With his car not being the greatest for traversing up and down large mountainous roads, I offered to drive him there one weekend then pick him back up in a couple weeks. So that’s how I spent last weekend, with a two-day drive through the Appalachians. Trip #1 complete!
On our way down there, I texted with my younger sister. This sister (I have two, one younger, one older) is already living a big part of my dream. She lives on a farm in southeast Ohio. Usually they grow alfalfa hay and square bale them. Bob says “Why do they call them square bales when they’re rectangle?” Good question! Anyway, we texted for a bit about what it would be like if we ended up moving near her. It would make us rather central in terms of driving to both southwest Ohio where the rest of my side of the family is and equally central to driving to western Virginia where Bob’s side of the family lives. Now we aren’t “ready” financially to make that move yet, but my sister told me of a land auction going on soon for a multitude of tracts, totaling over 400 acres, near her of course. We mused about it, but that was about it.
On the way back from VA, I decided to stop by my sister’s house for dinner. It’s not too far off the beaten path, but I do have to head there via a different route than I usually do. Thankfully there’s the Waze navigation app on my phone. Only… the route ended up having a “Road Closed Ahead” sign posted, and I had to take an alternate route. At this point, I did not know how far this alternate route would overshoot my destination, so with one bar of signal on my phone, I tried calling my sister. She didn’t answer. 😦 Within another mile, my cell phone ran out of service entirely… OF COURSE! Out in the middle of nowhere and no cell service. Thankfully Waze still had the route information and could triangulate by tower instead of satellite.
So I continued following this winding, hilly one lane road through the middle of nowhere, unable to call to report I may be late or ask for more specific directions, or question her why she didn’t tell me the road was closed when I spoke to her earlier! haha. To top that off, Waze kept trying to route me back to the road that was closed at each next available turn – because it didn’t know the road was closed! I was beginning to think I would end up lost. I passed up each turn and Waze recalculated to the next one. Eventually, I decided surely I must be beyond the road closure point now, right??? So I took the next turn Waze suggested even though the detour signs hadn’t told me to turn yet.
Down this lonely wooded road, I saw this set of signs along the side of the road. When I realized what it might be, I screeched to halt, threw it in park in the middle of the road and jumped out the the car to grab a brochure!
It was indeed the same land auction site my sister was texting me about the day before! Now how likely is it that I would end up standing right in front of it while nearly lost in southeast Ohio?!? It’s ridiculously succinct how the Universe leads us into seeming coincidences! The novelty of it is very cool. 🙂
I took a look around at the land. It was 100% wooded, and very remote in the sense that not even a cell phone signal is available. It’s also going to be auctioned off before I will be ready to buy. So, as novel as it was, it was kind of cool to end up there after that texting conversation the day before. I got back into the car and drove off in the direction of my sister’s farm. Eventually I made it, only 15 minutes later than expected. Dinner was almost done… grilled venison with sauteed onions & mushrooms and fried zucchini, mmm!
Now, I didn’t get any pictures at the farm, but afterwards, my sister Jenny took me out to see how her watermelons had taken over her landscaping (the kids planted them there, I think). My niece, who is in 8th grade, introduced me to her four golden comet chickens, telling me “they hate open umbrellas”. Haha This is the same niece who recently took second place in her first attempt at a 4H county fair bunny contest. (So proud of her!) Then we walked over the stream and out to the barn to feed the horses.
They have 5 now, plus one donkey. The pasture has been made larger and includes part of where they used to farm their alfalfa.
After that I was back on the road again with a few hours left to drive. I was glad I could take time out and catch up a bit with my sister and her family. I’ll also be sleeping over one night on the way to pick Bob back up, just to break the drive up some.
It’s different around the house without Bob. Kozar the dog keeps acting like he wants to tell or ask me something, following me around, being extra “lick-y” and demanding my attention more. I think he’s worried why Bob is not around. There’s no way to tell him, he’ll be back soon. And even though I have the whole bed to myself, I still find myself scrunched on my side of it, missing his presence next to me. I can’t wait until he returns. But in the meantime, we feel good about the time he is spending with his family. I just couldn’t take that much time off work. But, when I go pick him up, I will be staying a number of days. I’m looking forward to that, plus fishing if the weather cooperates. Fishing is so much better in Virginia!
Next blog: Back to gardening!